"When someone tells you how special you are, all that you can say is: This person given his particular taste and needs, desires, appetites and projections has a special desire for me, but that says nothing about me as a person. Someone else will find me quite unspecial and that too says nothing about me as a person."
- Anthony De Mello. The Way to Love: The Last Meditations of. Image Books,1991. pg 139